So there has always been this issue of PDA. In all honesty, I don't think we should be all over each other all the time. As people we do need space, again not all the time. I like spending time with my beau as much as the next girl, but there really should be limits to how much we can be all over them. I've seen hallways at my High School look like the starting of a new Motel 6 hot tub. How much is enough exactly? Obviously we have limits but they are pushed back a lot because of the love we want to share.
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10/17/2017 0 Comments How does cupid do it?So often while we sit there and wonder what our crushes are doing, we tend to think of Cupid. This legendary being that is suppose to fly down in his diaper and shoot you guys with arrows with hearts for the tips. When I was younger I totally fell for the whole Cupid thing.
It really has slipped my mind since then, after finding my new relationship developing, I forgot what it was really like to wonder what another person is doing when you aren't with them. I don't believe we just have one true soul mate. I think we could possibly have many scattered around so if something happens to one, that is how we find love again. Either that or love is just a science experiment by the government. Shocking. Kidding. Cupid was suppose to be the only one that made people fall in love but after awhile people filtered him out and stopping believing. Now most of us believe that if the sex is good, life is good. Not all the time. A lot of men and women get their hearts broken over one night stands that they did agree too. Mostly because of their needs, but everyone catches feelings. Comment what I should make a post about! <3 ~ Lovey Heart
10/3/2017 0 Comments To friend zone or not?There is one person we are always obsessing over. I want to use that term loosely because I highly doubt there is tons of guys and girls stalking some crush they have. I have NEVER seen someone outside of my window watching me and I hope the same goes for you guys!
Although we may have a seriously heavy crush, they don't always feel the same way about us, which is the crappy part. Makes us feel used, although we never had a chance to begin with. We never spoke out, never gave them any indication that we wanted something more than the occasional "hi" in the hallways in-between classes. We wanted more, but never made the effort. We become encased in this illusion that all the guys we really like never talk to us, which is why almost every guy who comes our way, that doesn't knock us off our feet at first glance, we friend zone. We shut down a lot of good opportunities because we think love is harder to find than it is. I know right now, high school is about looking good and looking better together. Trust me I understand the need to be the cutest couple at school but never exactly getting there. The friend zone is a huge place that I can't seem to find on any map but everyone is there at least once. There is one question that always has us upset..."SERIOUSLY?"
That is a question we ask ourselves for almost everything. Honestly I do it about a million times a day if not more. Never had I once thought about how many times I said it mentally when I saw someone looking at my crush. I came to this slow realization today when I was staring at a fellow student and they looked at another student that I had thought I had a crush on previously. I sat back after thinking that one upsetting question and thought some more about this. How many times do we sit back and watch other people do this stuff and think to ourselves? I have no reason to be mad because I didn't know the student and as for my previous crush, we didn't talk anymore. So I had no right to get mad. They didn't know I use to think that other person was cute or whatever. I just shrugged it off after I came to that realization but how many times have I done that before and either not thought anything about it or shrugged it off???? This question still nags me so I am asking all of you reading this to go to my contact page and write me your answer. ~ Lovey Heart <3 9/19/2017 0 Comments Love?What exactly is love? How do we know when we have actually found it?
We fall in love with the idea of falling in love like how the movies portray it, we want our own lovey-dovey stories to tell our friends and family. No one likes a dull love story. They can't all sound the same or they wouldn't be special to anyone including ourselves. The movies aren't all correct though. They have made everything regarding "love" go way too far. I am pretty sure not every high school or college girl will find her love in the coffee lounge down the road or at the gym. They don't always notice you right away. They may not even give you a second glance at first. He won't be completely blown away by your sweatpants and Ugg boots. I feel like there is a lot more to romance then the movies and books lead on. I am not a pessimist. Just a realist. I don't enjoy imagining your smiles fade as you slowly read this. I can honestly feel myself becoming more open with you. We are friends now, so I need to tell you the truth on everything right? This is my blog and it's all about the truth about Love. <3 Kisses :* |